March 26, 2023
11 min read
Are you wondering what it takes to be successful in life? In Chade-Meng Tan’s TED talk, he explores the power of everyday compassion and how it can lead to success, both personally and professionally.
Using AI, the Yoodli speech coach platform provides this TED talk, “Everyday Compassion at Google”:
"So what does the happiest man in the world look like? He certainly doesn’t look like me. He looks like this. His name is Matthieu Ricard. So how do you get to be the happiest man in the world? Well it turns out there is a way to measure happiness in the brain. And you do that by measuring the relative activation of the left prefrontal cortex in the fMRI, versus the right prefrontal cortex. And Matthieu’s happiness measure is off the charts. He’s by far the happiest man ever measured by science. Which leads us to a question: What was he thinking when he was being measured? Perhaps something very naughty. (Laughter) Actually, he was meditating on compassion. Matthieu’s own experience is that compassion is the happiest state ever.Reading about Matthieu was one of the pivotal moments of my life.
My dream is to create the conditions for world peace in my lifetime — and to do that by creating the conditions for inner peace and compassion on a global scale. And learning about Matthieu gave me a new angle to look at my work. Matthieu’s brain scan shows that compassion is not a chore. Compassion is something that creates happiness. Compassion is fun. And that mind-blowing insight changes the entire game. Because if compassion was a chore, nobody’s going to do it, except maybe the Dalai Lama or something. But if compassion was fun, everybody’s going to do it. Therefore, to create the conditions for global compassion, all we have to do is to reframe compassion as something that is fun.
But fun is not enough. What if compassion is also profitable? What if compassion is also good for business? Then, every boss, every manager in the world, will want to have compassion — like this. That would create the conditions for world peace. So, I started paying attention to what compassion looks like in a business setting. Fortunately, I didn’t have to look very far. Because what I was looking for was right in front of my eyes — in Google, my company. I know there are other compassionate companies in the world, but Google is the place I’m familiar with because I’ve been there for 10 years, so I’ll use Google as the case study.
Google is a company born of idealism. It’s a company that thrives on idealism. And maybe because of that, compassion is organic and widespread company-wide. In Google, expressions of corporate compassion almost always follow the same pattern. It’s sort of a funny pattern. It starts with a small group of Googlers taking the initiative to do something. And they don’t usually ask for permission; they just go ahead and do it, and then other Googlers join in, and it just gets bigger and bigger. And sometimes it gets big enough to become official. So in other words, it almost always starts from the bottom up. And let me give you some examples.
The first example is the largest annual community event — where Googlers from around the world donate their labor to their local communities — was initiated and organized by three employees before it became official, because it just became too big. Another example, three Googlers — a chef, an engineer and, most funny, a massage therapist — three of them, they learned about a region in India where 200,000 people live without a single medical facility. So what do they do? They just go ahead and start a fundraiser. And they raise enough money to build this hospital — the first hospital of its kind for 200,000 people.
During the Haiti earthquake, a number of engineers and product managers spontaneously came together and stayed overnight to build a tool to allow earthquake victims to find their loved ones. And expressions of compassion are also found in our international offices.In China for example, one mid-level employee initiated the largest social action competition in China, involving more than 1,000 schools in China, working on issues such as education, poverty, health care and the environment. There is so much organic social action all around Google that the company decided to form a social responsibility team just to support these efforts. And this idea, again, came from the grassroots, from two Googlers who wrote their own job descriptions and volunteered themselves for the job. And I found it fascinating that the social responsibility team was not formed as part of some grand corporate strategy. It was two persons saying, “Let’s do this,” and the company said, “Yes.”
So it turns out that Google is a compassionate company, because Googlers found compassion to be fun.But again, fun is not enough. There are also real business benefits. So what are they? The first benefit of compassion is that it creates highly effective business leaders. What does that mean? There are three components of compassion. There is the affective component, which is, “I feel for you.” There is the cognitive component, which is, “I understand you.” And there is a motivational component, which is, “I want to help you.” So what has this got to do with business leadership?
According to a very comprehensive study led by Jim Collins, and documented in the book “Good to Great,” it takes a very special kind of leader to bring a company from goodness to greatness. And he calls them “Level 5 leaders.” These are leaders who, in addition to being highly capable, possess two important qualities, and they are humility and ambition. These are leaders who are highly ambitious for the greater good. And because they’re ambitious for a greater good, they feel no need to inflate their own egos. And they, according to the research, make the best business leaders. And if you look at these qualities in the context of compassion, we find that the cognitive and affective components of compassion — understanding people and empathizing with people — inhibits, tones down, what I call the excessive self-obsession that’s in us, therefore creating the conditions for humility.
The motivational component of compassion creates ambition for greater good. In other words, compassion is the way to grow Level 5 leaders. And this is the first compelling business benefit. The second compelling benefit of compassion is that it creates an inspiring workforce. Employees mutually inspire each other towards greater good. It creates a vibrant, energetic community where people admire and respect each other. I mean, you come to work in the morning, and you work with three guys who just up and decide to build a hospital in India. It’s like, how can you not be inspired by those people — your own coworkers?
So this mutual inspiration promotes collaboration, initiative and creativity. It makes us a highly effective company. So, having said all that, what is the secret formula for brewing compassion in the corporate setting? In our experience, there are three ingredients. The first ingredient is to create a culture of passionate concern for the greater good. So always think: how is your company and your job serving the greater good? Or, how can you further serve the greater good? This awareness of serving the greater good is very self-inspiring and it creates fertile ground for compassion to grow in. That’s one.
The second ingredient is autonomy. So in Google, there’s a lot of autonomy. And one of our most popular managers jokes that, this is what he says, “Google is a place where the inmates run the asylum.” And he considers himself one of the inmates. If you already have a culture of compassion and idealism and you let your people roam free, they will do the right thing in the most compassionate way.
The third ingredient is to focus on inner development and personal growth. Leadership training in Google, for example, places a lot of emphasis on the inner qualities, such as self-awareness, self-mastery, empathy and compassion, because we believe that leadership begins with character. We even created a seven-week curriculum on emotion intelligence, which we jokingly call “Searching Inside Yourself.” It’s less naughty than it sounds. So I’m an engineer by training, but I’m one of the creators and instructors of this course, which I find kind of funny, because this is a company that trusts an engineer to teach emotion intelligence. What a company. (Laughter) So “Search Inside Yourself” — how does it work? It works in three steps.
The first step is attention training. Attention is the basis of all higher cognitive and emotional abilities. Therefore, any curriculum for training emotion intelligence has to begin with attention training. The idea here is to train attention to create a quality of mind that is calm and clear at the same time. And this creates the foundation for emotion intelligence.
The second step follows the first step. The second step is developing self-knowledge and self-mastery. So using the supercharged attention from step one, we create a high-resolution perception into the cognitive and emotive processes. What does that mean? It means being able to observe our thought stream and the process of emotion with high clarity, objectivity and from a third-person perspective. And once you can do that, you create the kind of self-knowledge that enables self-mastery.
The third step, following the second step, is to create new mental habits. What does that mean? Imagine this. Imagine whenever you meet any other person, any time you meet a person, your habitual, instinctive first thought is, “I want you to be happy. I want you to be happy.” Imagine you can do that. Having this habit, this mental habit, changes everything at work. Because this good will is unconsciously picked up by other people, and it creates trust, and trust creates a lot of good working relationships. And this also creates the conditions for compassion in the workplace. Someday, we hope to open-source “Search Inside Yourself” so that everybody in the corporate world will at least be able to use it as a reference.
And in closing, I want to end the same place I started, with happiness. I want to quote this guy — the guy in robes, not the other guy — the Dalai Lama, who said, “If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.” I found this to be true, both on the individual level and at a corporate level. And I hope that compassion will be both fun and profitable for you too. Thank you. (Applause)"
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Tan’s word choice analytics were great. Using Yoodli, we discovered that about 3% of his speech included repetition and another 3% included weak words. Tan also used less than 1% of filler words, which is particularly impressive.
Tan gets top marks in the word choice category, since best practices are to have less than 4% in all of those areas.
However, Yoodli did flag a single instance of non-inclusive language with the word “guys.” Luckily, the AI speech coach provides us with an easy alternative: “folks.”
The delivery of Tan’s TED talk was noticeably impressive, and his speaking metrics support this. Tan not only used appropriate body language (think gestures and facial expressions), but he also used natural pauses to help his listeners digest the information better.
In addition to that, Tan spoke at an even, conversational pace of 130 words per minute, which is fantastic.
However, Yoodli targeted two potential areas where Tan could improve, and those are eye contact and centering. However, we have to take this with a grain of salt. Because Tan was being recorded live, these metrics are more of a reflection of the recording as opposed to Tan himself.
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